Mars-South Node in Libra [Building, exact Oct 4]

With the ruler of the Aries North Node conjunct the Libra South, the way forward may, at times, be the way back - rooting out where grudges are held, where anger keeps us stuck, where frustrations have been buried but not forgotten, and where desires have been thwarted, stifled, sidelined or squashed.

Unrest cannot be ignored, and all relationships are a hotbed of past triumphs and frustrating failures. Might be time to make amends for trouble you caused in the past.

Mars on the South node has to focus not so much on winning - or winning anyone over - but on ensuring both sides can share and be heard. Rules of engagement are essential.

Agreements cannot be avoided without trouble following, even if a stalemate is agreed, a temporary ceasefire called.

Mars on the South is ever ready to roll up its sleeves and get in the ring, but remembers full well, how wasteful war has been and best avoided at all costs.

However, Mars on the South in Libra is a mighty chip on the shoulder, regarding how we have been unfairly treated by others, or how rudely and unjust others have been.

Debts are carried over until settled or dismissed. Be careful of old wars and extra mindful of old foes.

Rehashing (or forgetting) Karmic battles is unwise. Are you secretly keeping a score or trying to settle one, even unconsciously? Is another relationship story encroaching on present partnerships? What has been left unresolved, unclaimed and what do we still want? Can we express our desire or is it easier to bury it again?

Sexual frustration can be the root cause of many conflicts now, as can too much niceness quickly turn ugly.

At its highest, this alignment has the vibe of Courtroom etiquette - conflicts handled swiftly and fairly. Share-listen-argue- reason-judgement. Make your case, accept the verdict.  The Sun conjunct asteroid Pallas (the strategist) suggests it’s smarter to find a middle ground, instead of opting for the scorched earth policy. But that involves level-headedness, a little harder to come by, under a full moon, without conscious effort.

Planets on the South Node can be an Achilles heel, an attractive trap. Mars here thus suggests resisting the allure of retaliation and revenge, which are soon regretted.

The way to Aries North Node self confidence is being able to remain yourself in any relationship or pairing you find yourself in.

You can modify, adjust and accommodate, but still remain rooted in your own likes, dislikes, preferences, without needing to people-please, appease or pander.

Keep in mind, smooth smiles come baring sharp teeth.